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When relating with people, understanding these things will help u in your relationship in marriage,  workplace, church, society and any where. 

Be blessed as you read along .....

People you meet have different backgrounds, so don't expect them to understand things like u. People have different struggles and problems,  not only you. 

Point one ...  Everyone has strength and weaknesses,  so stop trying to test People always, are you a tester? 

Someone who keeps tolerating you will one day get tired. Don't keep pushing others to the wall, the day they respond to your actions, you will get the shock of your life. 

Even God's word says provoke not your children to anger, rather bring them up with love. Correction when wrong is done in love. Learn to put yourself in others shoes.

U may think they don't have option so you treat people any how but the truth is that despite all other options,  they choose to stay with you.... even if they don't have options for example in the case of family members,  must you be the reasons for someone else’s pain? 

Point Two ......Not everyone can love you,  even Jesus had haters. Learn to live with this. Not everyone you expect to like you can like you. 

Only God can do that. Even you, cannot love everyone but at least Strive to be at peace with yourself and others. 

 Yes, its a battle thats why the scripture says we should STRIVE to be at peace with everyone. 

Point three ..... Also,  not everyone is happy about your success and dreams. So be careful about who you share them with... some people are dream killers.... May God deliver us from them all. 🙏 Amen 

Point four .... Not everyone is under the influence of the HolySpirit,  some are under the influence of drugs, alcohol and even demons..... even some Christians are under the influence of anger, hatred and bitterness. So be careful 

Point 5..... Words are powerful and mind the way you address your fellow human beings,  they may not have what you have but do know that in life, tables turn..... your children may be in dire need of help tomorrow and the only person who can help will be your househelp who you have spoken badly to and hurt deeply. Be careful friend...

Point 6..... The church is filled with different people who need one help or the other, not everyone is 'perfect'  like you,  yet not everyone is who they claim to be. 

 Have you forgotten that we have wolves in sheep clothing?

 This reminds me of a friend who told me about her workplace issues,  how her boss kept harassing another colleague in that organization because he felt she was a loose person. 

This married woman refused his offer and she said that from that day, he has been looking for a way to get her sacked .... based on the fact that she did not have a good qualification. 

Yet this particular boss was always calling for prayer meeting with the staff members and she said anytime this prayer is called for,  she is forced to attend but she keeps remembering that sexual harassment issues with him. 

Now I'm wondering,  what if this woman is not a strong Christian and she gave in to him,  just like other female colleagues she would go around telling everyone who cares to listen that that's how Christians behave 🤔.  I hope you understand my points.

May God help us.... So be careful as the church is just like a hospital, different kinds of people go there. 

We have cases of christians telling lies, manipulating,  and doing many bad/evil things just to save their heads at work, home, society etc.

 For me, ill rather lose my job by standing on the truth rather than joining or collaborating with others to do evil things for unrighteous gains.... 

Point 7 : Some human beings have turned themselves into beasts filled with different vices, wickedness, even God says the heart of men are desperately wicked. That's why we need to give ourselves to God to prune us, break us, mold us again till we become His beautiful masterpiece ❤. 

My heart goes out to everyone who has read this writeup, who is struggling with one of such problems. 

My prayers is that God will help you become more like Himself and help you become a light to a world filled with darkness  Amen 

Wrapping up, 

Even though we try to be patient with others, you cannot control other people's actions towards you. 

Don't be the person causing offences because God says Woe to the fellow through whom offenses come. 

Point 8 : You cannot have a good relationship with God or others when you keep repeating the same mistakes and bad actions. 

Jesus Christ cares about you and me and wants to make something beautiful about our lives but are you willing to surrender your all to Him? 

Point 9 .... Try to see things from different perspectives,  not only your own view is correct 👌 

You are not the only right person and also treat others the way you want to be treated.  

Point 10: Whether you believe it or not,  You'll get back what you do to others. God has a way of making your actions to others come back to you. 

Stop manipulating others because you will get it back in multiple times more. Amen. 

These are just few points and wisdom is indeed profitable to direct. I hope that this post gets to everyone who will be blessed by this writeup and I also hope to get your own feedback. 

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