ADVICE TO ALL  EMPLOYEES :

Written by: Tamboura Tamson

1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house after 50 is not an achievement. Let all your family have good time in your house, build more memories in your home.

2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year. You are not the pillar of your department. If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue. Make your family a priority.

3. Don't chase promotions. Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't, stay positive to your personal.

development.

4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda.

5. Don't ever compete with your bosses. You will burn your fingers. Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your brain.

6. Ensure you have a side business. Your salary will not sustain your needs in the long run.

7. Save some money. Let it be deducted automatically from your payslip.

8. Borrow a loan to invest in a business or to change a situation not to buy luxury. Buy luxury from your profit.

9. Keep your life, marriage and family private. Let them stay away from your work. This is very important.

10. Be loyal to yourself and believe in your work. Hanging around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and your boss may finally dump you when he leaves.

11. Retire early. The best way to plan for your exit was when you received the employment letter. The other best time is today. By 40 to 50 be out.

12. Join work welfare and be an active member always. It will help you a lot when any eventuality occurs.

13.Take leave days utilize them by developing yr future home or projects..usually what you do during yr leave days is a reflection of how you'll live after retirement..If it means you spend it all holding a remote control watching series on Zee world, expect nothing different after retirement.

14. Start a project whilst still serving or working. Let your project run whilst at work and if it doesn't do well, start another one till it's running viably. When your project is viably running then retire to manage your business. Most people or pensioners fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to run a project.

15. Pension money is not for starting a project or buy a stand or build a house but it's money for your upkeep or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not for paying school fees or marrying a young wife but to look after yourself.

16. Always remember, when you retire never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement but be a role model for colleagues to think of retiring too.

17. Don't retire just because you are finished or you are now a burden to the company and just wait for your day to die. Retire young or whilst energetic to enjoy waking up for a cup of coffee, enjoy the sun, receive money from your business, visit nice place that you missed and spend good time with family. Those who retire late, spend about 95% of their time at work than with their family and that's why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end looking for another job till they die. If they don't get another job, they die early.

18. Retire at your house than at government accommodation so that when you retire you can easily fit into the society that raised you. It's not easy to adjust to live in a location after spending more years at company house or at government house.

19. Never let your employment benefits make you forget about your retirement. Employment benefits are just meant to make you relax, get finished whilst time is moving. Remember when you retire no one will call you boss if you don't have a viable business.

20. Don't hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily.

Hope this will help you look at life positively.

— Tamboura Tamson

Someone sent me this issue she is presently faced with in her workplace, if u need to pray to analyze this, pray or sing or dance 💃 as you read along 😆 🤣 😂 

Read this, it doesn't even need Prayers because ordinary sense is needed for this issues, after all to who God gave brain to,  you should  reason well abi sense is expected. 

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As she sat in her office / store-office today June 6, 2024 in Idiroko Ibadan,  she was given a query on a job that pays her N40k as a school Accountant/Bursar and she also goes out to purchase items for the school when the need arises. 

She also spoke about the fact that she has health issues and accommodation problem which her Boss knows about, but refused to respond to her need for help when her landlord was haraassing her and she needed an urgent help that left her stranded for days .... no job benefits,  no training,  just users/slave masters. 

... with her University degree and Professional diploma and I.T certification from NIIT with more certification in view ....

God is never a user of men like these individuals,  God doesn't scam you. When you work for Him, He will definitely pay you beyond your input. He's not a wicked fellow like your boss. 

(No be to brag o, but I just want to emphasize the STUPIDITY of some people.) Abeg you need to read this piece as a woman and share with your daughters... 

My Opinion: 

Certificate is not the point but knowing your worth as a child of God and a human being created by God! I just bursted into laughter as I saw the jargons query  she was given ...... 😆 🤣 😂 😹 some people stupid o... She even was told by this set of employers that they want to HELP her hahaha 😆. 

Abegi.... if someone wants to help you, that fellow will not STRESS YOU 🙂. If that's all you can read from here, Hold it tight. Nigerian employers, directors or whatever is their dumb names are just slave masters...

 There are lots of things to do that requires absolutely no Certificate in Nigeria and you earn more than what all these Certificate-crazy people earn yearly... 

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Amazing Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala

LETTER TO ANY YOUNG GIRL THAT FOLLOWS ME HERE. 

By NINNAH

That money you are asking a man to sleep with you and give you ; you can actually make it yourself and even much more . 

I could remember in 2020 , I walked away from a salary of N480,000.  

The following year ,  I walked away from N2.5 M to draft an agreement. 

The following year , I stepped up to an annual gross of N12,000,000. ( Twelve Million Naira ) but later walked away .  

I wanted more and I was confident I was worth more. 

2022, I set for myself another goal . 

This year , am still struggling with few ranges of worth and salary for my level. (self- acclaimed level  😆). 

I was the youngest COO amongst my friends, At another phase I became a CEO in another big company , (not CEO self - employed)  and these companies ain't startups.  I was the smallest in board meeting but my brain was all I was interested to sell . 

The problem over those years was never salary, it's been "Retainership" because I kept getting better and looking for better opportunities. 

I was always stolen from other places or recommended  until I stopped working for anyone and decided to be on my own . 

We sell brains , not body .... It's more honourable 

[Don't worry I'll attach proof for doubting Thomases at the comments sessions ]

I have very young female bosses that earns more and I aspire to be like them . [ 27, 29, 30, 35]

So I set new financial goals every year and am always working hard to be better . ( But that's not the gist ). 

Some of you aspire to be like Saida Boj,

 It's your choice and I've no problem with it . 

If you feel you're entitled to 20M when a man sleeps with you or N500k the first day he says Hi' , it's your choice to have her kind as your mentor . 

But you must realize that every lifestyle has its own risk, so choose the one that the consequences are of lesser risk for you . 

It's mid night, and am thinking about the essence of all these hazardous life styles of our gullible young girls  . 

Alot of things may have happened in your lives , It could be want , lack of Contentment, poor background, peer pressure, economy situation. Etc . 

This post is not to sound arrogant of my person or judge any hook up girl but to assure the younger girls that you can have more if you work more on enhancement of  your brain and not the enhancement of only your body. 

Any girl who is involved in hook-up has low self esteem because you should know you are worth more . 

There's nothing wrong in having a relationship with a man but bargaining price for Sex and flying all the way down to sell your body ? For how much naw ?

How does it feel knowing that a man is on top of you just for the money he's paying you . 

He's going to rough handle you as desired because he payed for it, it's a service that ought to be satisfactory to his test . 

You've got no choice - however and where ever openings he wants to deal with you in. 

Some of these pigs are also vindictive , they must make sure your body pays heavily for the money you're paid so when you're done , you are likened to someone who was crushed by a 40feet trailer fully loaded with dangote cement .

Some will make you do the unimaginable and even ask you to sleep with their friends. 

I can't imagine how belittling any woman can feel . 

I feel sad , I am empathetic and sorry if you're in this kind of situation 🫂🫂🫂 . 

Listen darls, It's insulting for a man to offer you money you know you can make for yourself.. 

Sex is priceless, 

It's meant to be enjoyed with the right person,

It's not meant to be a product or service for survival 

You don't throw a pearl to a pig , 

It's too precious unless you've lost your esteem. 

You need a Psychotherapist to walk you through a PT session on self-reflection and a more in-depth exploration of self worth. 

I don't intend this post to be long 

"You can make much more than what you died for ". 

The above comment was what repeatedly rang in my head when I saw the news about Celine and Afiba. 

I challenge you ,  girl  !

-Get yourself a skill

- Get better at  it 

And the best company will even find it difficult to retain you . 

Your country will be scared to lose you . 

You can be valued , not just in bed but with your brain. 

I wish you well ♥️💞

"May the Lord forgive the souls of these girls and show them mercy. May he comfort their family and cover their shames ". 

Ninnah.

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#Inspiration -NgoziOkonjoIweala

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 For a child of God who is serving God indeed, theres indeed no fear in death as we have a better home in heaven where there's no sorrow, no pain, no afflictions or oppression. 

The last verse of a popular gospel hymn ---In Christ Alone comes to mind and it goes thus,

NO GUILT IN LIFE, NO FEAR IN DEATH

THIS IS THE POWER OF CHRIST IN ME,

FROM LIFE'S FIRST CRY TO FINAL BREATH

JESUS COMMANDS MY DESTINY,

NO POWER OF HELL NO SCHEME OF MAN

CAN EVER PLUCK ME FROM HIS HAND,

TILL HE RERURNS OR CALLS ME HOME

HERE IN THE POWER OF CHRIST ILL STAND!

No guilt in life, no fear in death
This is the power of Christ in me
From life's first cry to final breath
Jesus commands my destiny
No power of hell, no scheme of man
Can ever pluck me from His hand
Till He returns or calls me home
Here in power of Christ I'll stand 

Gospel Singer passed unto glory recently and I have a feeling that she was called home. Just watch the video Below to see her ministration before she passed on. The issue of marriage,who you marry and domestic violence is issue for another day.

THIS IS A WARNING TO YOU!

#Saynotodomesticviolence 

Shalom. 

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