Mentor and Mentee

 MENTOR & MENTEE

By Musa Gift 

DEAR BRO MENTOR mentoring that young Lady. Be Wise.

Many Male Mentors out of ignorance have ended up getting intimate and having affairs with the Mentee they were Mentoring.

Watch Out.

When your female mentee starts to look sexy and physically attractive to you.

When you start noticing her breasts size, and her shape.. 

When you start noticing how curvy she is, how her lips look succulent and how her body bounces when she walks. 

When you now crave her presence, and miss her absence badly,

When you now call her late at night JUST to hear her voice, or video call her JUST to see her face. 

When your female mentee starts to become more like a girlfriend to you than a younger sister.

Your egungun is now headed towards the express. Take action fast.

Just because she's matured, well mannered, wife material, that doesn't mean you should convert her from MENTEE to WIFEE when you have no conviction/leading to do so. 

Mentor her and let her go. Be disciplined. 

Don't send mixed signals to any female mentee

Don't call her "My Love, Baby, Sweetheart"

Avoid using "I Iove you" for a Mentee, she may take it literally. 

Don't wake up feelings in her through your touch, every time your hand is on her shoulder, on her hands, on her neck, on her cheeks, on her leg, why? Is that how they mentor people? Or you are doing impartation service? 

Stop hugging her anyhow, she's not a teddy bear. You're kindling a fire in her that will burn her and burn you.

She's your Mentee, not your wife, don't ask her to wash your clothes for you, or cook meals for you, don't misuse the influence you have over her, turn her down if she volunteers to come to your place to do house chores for you, na from clap dance dey start.....

Why does the mentoring have to always take place in your room when nobody is around?

You may be a young Man of God, highly anointed, but you are also a Man.. Blood flows in your veins, not red oil.

Don't tempt yourself and don't overestimate yourself, the result will shock you. 

Pregnancy you didn't plan for is planning for you. 

The moment you start noticing a Mentoring exercise is becoming like Dating or Temptation exercise and God is not leading you to marry her, Run..

This isn't a matter of discipline, or anointing, Hand over that Mentee to a Female Mentor to continue from where you stopped, and cut her off temporarily while you go on a retreat.

Before you and your Mentee end up in the Bedroom.... 

From Your Brother in Christ.

(c) Musa Gift